Communicate is Vital in Threesome

Threesome is both dreamy and challenging. If you know how to do it, it can strengthen the relationship with your partner and give you some excitement in life. However, if you don’t, it can tear apart your relationship and leave you very bad memory. You may never want to try it again. In this way, you are losing a great way to experience something fun and wonderful. Amid threesome, communication is the most important element. It plays a significant role in the whole process. From one party asking for threesome to actually doing it, communication is inevitable. I would like to talk about the whole process of having threesome with my husband from bringing it up to finishing it. If you are curious or interested in having threesome, please keep reading. I will tell you why communication matters so much in threesome.

It is my husband who brought it up. One night, we were watching a movie. There was a scene of threesome. He turned to me and said: how about we have a threesome? He was so calm and serious. He looked at and waited for my answer. I never had threesome before. I asked him the reason. He said that it would be hot to see me with another woman. I agreed and we tacitly approved that the third person was going to be a female. I think the reason he gave me was very smart. He didn’t mention himself, so I didn’t think too much about him with another woman. This is a great way to say to your partner if you are facing this issue.

The second step is planning. We talked a lot, about where it is going to happen, out house or hotel? Who are we going to invite, a friend or a stranger? When are we going to do it? etc. All decisions were made by both of us. Besides, we also talked about how are we going to do it, including details. Who should we start with? How many minutes should we stay in each person? I also set rules. He can’t stay on her for too long. He should put me first. He is not allowed to make eye contact with her and so on. As for me, he didn’t set rules.

The third step is finding the third person, which was very easy. There are many online threesome dating apps. They are very useful. We just took one day to find her. After we found her, the first thing we did was also communication. Told her when and where to do it. We also set some boundaries. Make sure each of us understand and respect each other.

The last step was the most important step. I don’t have to explain. I am sure you don’t want to hear and you all know it. Anyway, that was a great experience. I think communication owns the credit for all of it.